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“7 Reasons Why Old Souls Have Such a Hard Time Finding Love” By Jonin Marie Gargoles

1. They have a strong personality.

They  know what they really want in life. They know who they are , which means they also know what they do and do not want in a relationship. They will stay single than being in a wrong relationship.  People would say they are very picky and frank. They can struck your heart enchanted but will slap the truth when they say no to you.

2. They are overthinkers.

Often prone to overthinking because of how deeply sensitive they are, their capacity to worry and make assumptions can break relationship. They analyzed things fervently because their perfect strong foundation was wrecked and damage in the past.

3. They believe in true love and soulmate.

They believe one day they will meet the right person in the right time. They will not settle for less than soulmate love. They require deep conversation and strong connection the people they love. They require a lot more than just a average relationship. Absolutely they will not settle for less and that means they are bulletproof when it comes to love.

4. They are dream chaser and goal oriented

They often have a greater purpose that must attended to first and not let love would distract them from achieving their goals. They usually want to accomplish their greatest dreams in life deeply. They prioritized important things than temporary goals.

5. They are natural healers

Often times hanging out with them feels very calm, warm and soothing in the soul. They attract people who needs help and they’re  natural healers. There’s almost nothing that feels better to an old soul than being able to help someone who truly needs it. However, at some point in time, it’s crucial for them to realize that they have to choose a partner, not a student, or a charity case.

6. They don’t like playing “games” when it comes to dating.

Dating is inherently exhausting to an older-spirited person. They are not a big fan of online dating. They prefer to meet the right person naturally. Their standard and expectations are sky high.  They expect a lot from themselves, so likewise, they expect a lot from their partners. While this is a great thing, it’s another quality that has to be kept in check: it’s more important to be able to accept the qualities that aren’t deal-breakers than it is to just write a person off because they’re imperfect.

They’re less inclined to go out and meet people in modern ways. Even if they have nothing against online dating, it doesn’t always come naturally for them, nor does finding a random hookup at a bar or being set up blindly seem not appealing for them.

7. They feel fear as intensely as they feel love.

The degree to which they love something is proportionate to how much they fear losing it, or not being “good enough” for it. They don’t just love intensely, they feel everything else intensely, too, and sometimes, that gets in the way of the really good things in front of them.

They are scared of being cheated because they experienced betrayal a lot of times. People who developed their inner selves quickly did so for a reason: they had to cope, they had to grow, or they had to learn from some challenging experiences that life set up for them.

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